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I’m feeling tired today. My internal clock still hasn’t caught up with the hour change last weekend.

Sleep has always been a barometer for me. I’ve always fallen asleep easily but the time I wake up, reflects my level of stress or anxiety.

In the past, a fried nervous system would wake me in the middle of the night and I would struggle to get back to sleep. And if I was particularly worried about something, I would wake early and my mind would start whirring.

These days, I wake differently. Not in panic or in anxiety but in a state of alert curiosity which is a chemical signature of excitement rather than fear. Cortisol nudges me awake but dopamine and adrenaline give me energy to notice, reflect and create.

My nervous system is no longer on high alert as it’s tuned to life rather than trauma. This shift didn’t happen overnight. It’s been years of small, deliberate work - healing, self-reflection and building new patterns of safety and resilience.

Last week, at our Natural Network gathering, we explored the Samhain energy and crossed the threshold between light and dark. Sitting in a circle, sharing stories, holding silence, I felt the collective nervous system relax and open.

It was a powerful reminder of how energy circulates and when people are aligned in attention and intention, life flows, ideas spark and connection deepens.

Samhain invites us to slow down. Nature is retreating into the roots, conserving energy for the fertile dark of winter.

Rest is not indulgence, it’s strategy.

Honouring our circadian rhythms (the internal clock regulated by light, darkness and hormones like melatonin and cortisol), allows deep regeneration, creativity and resilience to emerge. Ignoring these rhythms keeps us in constant stimulation and aligning with them gives us the space to integrate and grow.

So, what if pausing, reflecting and resting is an act of alignment, not weakness?

And what if the antidote to the darkness is connection to self and others?

For businesses, the same principle applies. Strategic stillness and creating space to pause, integrate and connect, fosters creativity and innovation we’d otherwise struggle to achieve.

Teams that sit in circles, share stories and slow down together often leave invigorated, connected and more capable of meaningful action.

So maybe it’s time to allow the fertile darkness of winter to do its work, internally and externally? And to ask where am I creating value, not just output?

As we move into the darker months, I invite you to explore your own Samhain threshold.

Notice the rhythms of your body, your team, your projects. Feel the difference between reactive rest and deliberate, regenerative rest. Lean into the pause, the dark, the quiet.

Trust that in the stillness, the next season of growth is forming beneath the surface, ready to emerge when the time is right.

One way to make this practical is to use the Map of Meaning. It’s a simple framework to explore what gives your work and life purpose and where your energy is flowing between ‘being’ and ‘doing’. Here’s a taster but if you’d like to explore it further, please feel free to drop me a message...

November Events

As we move in to the darker months, it’s important we nurture our connections to community. So don’t forget to keep an eye on the events calendar.

💪 The Power of You: Align Within, Amplify Outward.

19th November at Patch

The Power of You is a half-day workshop designed to help professional people reconnect, reflect and take practical action. This values-led initiative created by me and the wonderful Mark Masters, combines personal reflection with tangible strategies so you can apply clarity to your business, a project or your personal brand. Free to businesses in the BCP council area. Tickets here

🦡 Sustainability in Action: A Dorset Business & Nature Collaboration

13th November in Poole and Brownsea Island

I’m speaking at this event which has been created by Dorset Wildlife Trust, in partnership with Dorset Chamber. Together, we will explore how collaboration between charities and businesses can help secure a thriving future for Dorset’s economy, community and environment. Tickets here.

🧘 “COMING HOME" – A DOCUMENTARY ABOUT BREATHWORK AND REBIRTHING, FOLLOWED BY A LIVE GROUP BREATHWORK SESSION

27th November it Patch

I’m facilitating a special evening exploring the power of breathwork. The event begins with the premiere screening of a new documentary by my friend Patrick Frost on the transformative practice of rebirthing breathwork, followed by a panel discussion with leading voices in the field. The evening concludes with a one-hour guided breathwork session led by two of the UK’s most respected breathworkers, Jacqui Storm and Kerry Veitch from the Air School of Breathwork. Tickets here.

🧘 ‘Sunday Scaries’ by Emily Danby

Starting 2 November. 4-week pilot (until 23 November) online.

Created by my friend Emily, Sunday Scaries Club is an online space for women who want quality company and self-connection before the week kicks in. If you’ve ever felt like the weekend was a lot… and the week ahead looks like a lot too… this is a space for you. More details here.

Well that’s it for another week. It’s felt full so I hope it wasn’t too busy for you.

And if it was, have a rest, you deserve it.

With compassion, curiosity and love,

Nick

 

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