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Hey Subscriber First Name I’m excited to be back at my desk writing this after a one-week interlude. I hope you’ve had a good fortnight. So here we are. It’s September and today is my birthday. Maybe it’s the Dartmoor air still lingering in my lungs, maybe it’s that back-to-school energy or maybe it’s simply stepping into my 43rd rotation around the sun but I’m feeling reflective. I’ve been reading a wonderful book called ‘Stars Aligned’ by Prue Nichols which reframes birthdays. Each year isn’t just a marker of time but a beginning, a new chapter. Seen this way, today feels less like an anniversary and more like my New Year’s Day, the start of another orbit around the sun. If I’m honest, my relationship with birthdays has always been complicated. When I was 17, my mum died suddenly just two months after my birthday. She was only 49 which felt old when I was young but not so much now. Growing up, my mum always poured so much love and effort into my birthday so when she was gone, the day took on a different shape. In the years that followed, birthdays often carried more sadness than joy. I was grateful for the love and care of my wife and kids but I know I sometimes felt distant, almost going through the motions. But good news, this year feels very different. Years of inner work, healing, holistic training and deep connections with incredible people have brought me to a new place. I now feel joy and hope flowing more freely, aligned with the wisdom of nature. Perhaps that’s why I’m so energised about launching The Natural Network (more on that below). Today, I’m genuinely celebrating. My inner child is grinning ear to ear as we’re going go-karting as a family and I’ve got a new (to me) drone waiting to be flown. I like to think my mum would be proud of where I’ve got to. I’ve tried to live in alignment with her hippy, feminist and free-thinking values. And I’d like to share something deeply personal with you, the last birthday card I ever received from her. Inside is a printed poem, but also a handwritten note. She had no idea she would pass away two months later and yet the message she left me, to live a life filled with love has guided me ever since. I hope the poem resonates for you too. So here we are…
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